What really matters....

Having a text convo with my good friend and it hit me... Something that seems to be lost on so many people in the world.... With all the changes I have been going thru this last 18 months, what it is that really matters in this world...

I was married to a man who thought that what mattered were things... possessions... that was something we could never agree on. I have always known what matters and what doesn't.....

Now, that I am embarking on life again as a single woman, it appalls me that so many people... and men at that, have no clue about what really matters in this world. They play games, create drama and basically act like a bunch of spoiled over privileged children. They think that submission is something you can turn on and off at whim.... they think that any Domme or woman for that matter who is truly worth anything, will just put up with their shit. They think they are the only cock in town.... they think that we should all thank our lucky stars to have them.... Truth be told, they aren't... they have no value in this world or any world to any woman of quality... Because, lets be honest here, what woman... REAL WOMAN... wants some man who is full of shit... who can't stand behind their word... who thinks playing games and being less then a man is worth having... who wants a man who is so broken he has no idea how to even... BE A MAN!

I want a man, submissive or not who understands whats really important in life... One who understand that possessions and stuff is just that... STUFF

I want someone... ANYONE who gets that its the connections, the REAL CONNECTIONS you make with other people that matter most in this world... That someday, a day that none of us will know, we won't be here any longer to share the gift of ourselves with others.... Need it be the gift of being a real true friend, a lover, a confidant... or the gift of submission....